Character Assassination

Just like a few of you have already touched on, I really resonated with the power of our words. I felt really convicted by Jesus's comments on sarcasm and harsh words. I think DJ said that using dehumanizing language like that is "character assassination." I loved that description because it so tangibly shows the effect words can leave on our souls.

Also, in a brief part of the sermon he touched on who can listen to confession. I LOVED what he said (paraphrased): "you don't have to have experienced the life to empathize, you only have to have experienced the cross." This hit home because I think a huge part of me constantly wants to be relating to people (both a strength and a weakness). Many time I struggle to support someone who has experienced something I haven't but DJ's words reminded me that Jesus's grace and forgiveness is all we need.

Lord I pray for freedom from anger I haven't addressed. I pray for discernment to identify places in my life that I'm resisting your grace. Please give me courage to address them.

Also sidenote from last week's sermon DJ talked about the importance of keeping your parents reputation and I'm still thinking about that. I feel like we don't usually talk about reputation in the church. I understand that we aren't supposed to shame our parents and I get that this idea stems from respect. I guess I'm wondering what you all think about our role to maintain our parents reputation because I'm still trying to unravel that. This question doesn't apply to me but like if a parent was abusing their child is this saying that it should be covered up? Not sure, anyways, would love your thoughts.